It still hasn’t quite sunk in yet…Your wife wants to leave you and file for divorce.
YOU do not want to, and YOU think that the marriage can be saved.
You KNOW that you’re not ready to throw in the towel on your marriage, no matter how bad things have gotten in the past couple of months.
If you want to find out how you can change your wife’s mind and make her WANT to come back to your marriage, then this is the article for you. If you can’t even begin to stand the thought of your wife walking out the door and never coming back, then throughout this article you’re going to be learning what you can do to change her mind and get her back.
Don’t worry, even if you don’t find what you’re looking for here, I’m telling you right now that there’s hope for a better future.
No matter what you do from here, just remember that where there’s a will there’s a way. Below you’ll find the most effective tips for getting your wife to come back to you when she wants a divorce.
#1. Remember That She’s Past the Point of Rationality
You need to set a very clear goal for getting your wife back, and it’s not about changing her MIND. You see, at this point your wife is WAY past the point where she’s going to be thinking with her brain.
At this point it’s all about her heart…So what should you do?
Instead of trying to alter the perception of your wife in her brain (or in other words: the way that she thinks of you), instead focus on the way she feels. You need to aim to increase your wife’s emotional view of you, if that makes sense, and it’s not going to happen because of any argument you present her.
Basically, it’s going to take some good ol’ fashioned romancing to get your wife back, because that’s one of the only ways that you’re going to be able to affect the REAL way that she views you; with her heart.
And don’t even think about trying to tell your wife about all the tax benefits of staying together, or “What would my parents say” or “what about the kids” or anything like that. At this point for your wife, it’s all about her.
#2. Think Back To Your First Days of Courtship
Listen, if you and your wife have been married for any amount of time, then chances are that at least a small part of your wife really does NOT want to be single again.
I mean, our society puts a LOT of pressure on women to secure a marriage while they’re young, and that societal pressure can often be manipulated to your advantage.
Well, because it means that if your wife is given the opportunity, she’s going to want to stay with you. You just have to make her HEART realize that she wants to stay. And how exactly do you do that? Well, you’ll need to start being a lot more flirty, charming and manly for her. Basically, remind her why she married you.
Make it your goal to get your wife to have just ONE second thought about leaving. As soon as she recognizes even a hint of doubt about her decision then your job becomes a LOT easier. Trust me.
#3. The Real Trick: Make Her WANT To Come Back
This is the real hardest part of getting your wife back…Making her WANT to come back to the marriage. However, even though this probably sounds impossible right now, it has to happen before you can hope for a better marriage.
Just remember that there are a select few things that you can do to prove to your wife that you’re legit, and make her start wanting to come back to you. If you can understand what things your wife is looking for, and what exactly is causing her to leave, then you can make efforts to correct those problems/issues.
This alone will make your wife more likely to stay.
Just remember that a part of your wife used to love you. If you can re-awaken that side of her then your job is practically already done for you.