Getting married is supposed to be a lifetime commitment, but despite that, there are still broken marriages. If you are one of those who separated with your spouse and want to get back into a relationship with him/her, try to read this article:
Don’t lose hope.
Whatever problems you have together with your ex spouse, always remember that there will always be a solution. Instead of moping around and losing hope, gather all the courage in you and hold on to your love so you could bring the pieces back together.
Identify the root cause of your separation.
Know what caused your separation and try to talk with your ex about the problems that you had. Then ask your ex to work things out with you. If you know what went wrong, it will be easier for both of you to come up with a solution.
Try to resolve the problem with level-headed minds.
After identifying where you have fallen short, try to seek for a solution. Instead of blaming each other, work together so you can have a fresh start. It may take several changes, but you need to embrace these changes in order for you to move forward.
Apologize and change for the best.
Don’t pinpoint each other’s mistakes; instead, admit that you also have flaws and shortcomings. Say sorry and mean it, admission may not come easy but it is a step you need to take to heal the wounds.
Remind your spouse of your happy times as a couple.
Recall the happy days you had spent together. This will always bring a warm feeling inside of him/her. Reminisce the times when you have known each other and how you fell in love with each other. It will make you remember of the love you had for each other.
Forgive and forget-no exceptions.
Never dwell upon the past; mistakes have been done, so leave them there. Instead of clinging to the hurtful past, forgive the shortcomings of your ex spouse and forget the bad things that happened between the two of you.
Pray earnestly for help.
Nothing beats a sincere prayer. Try to ask God (or your higher self if you don’t believe in deity) for guidance and forgiving heart. Just do your part and God will take care of the rest. It has been said that God will always grant the desires of your heart as an answer to a fervent prayer.